Over the last several weeks there has
been much talk about Judge Kavanaugh and the other men who approved his
nomination to the Supreme Court of the United States. Many of us felt a sense
of incongruity as we watched the line-up of nicely turned out, well-dressed men,
emanating wealth and privilege while listening to testimonies of violent sexual
assault.
Throughout my childhood and teenage
years, I saw power as symbolized by confident men in dark suits. They embodied
authority and were not to be questioned. Sometimes I felt there was something
under the surface that was to be feared, though I could not say what it was.
Recently, talking to a friend about such
men, D.H. Lawrence’s poem called How
Beastly the Bourgeois Is sprang to mind:
How beastly the bourgeois is
especially the male of the species —
Presentable, eminently presentable — shall I make you a present of him?
Isn’t he handsome? Isn’t he healthy? Isn’t he a fine specimen?
Doesn’t he look the fresh clean Englishman, outside?
Isn’t it God’s own image? tramping his thirty miles a day
after partridges, or a little rubber ball?
wouldn’t you like to be like that, well off, and quite the thing
Oh, but wait!
Let him meet a new emotion, let him be faced with another
man’s need,
let him come home to a bit of moral difficulty, let life
face him with a new demand on his understanding
and then watch him go soggy, like a wet meringue.
Watch him turn into a mess, either a fool or a bully.
Just watch the display of him, confronted with a new
demand on his intelligence,
a new life-demand.
How beastly the bourgeois is
especially the male of the species —
Nicely groomed, like a mushroom
standing there so sleek and erect and eyeable —
and like a fungus, living on the remains of a bygone life
sucking his life out of the dead leaves of greater life
than his own.
And even so, he’s stale, he’s been there too long.
Touch him, and you’ll find he’s all gone inside
Just like an old mushroom, all wormy inside, and hollow
under a smooth skin and an upright appearance.
Full of seething, wormy, hollow feelings
rather nasty —
How beastly the bourgeois is!
Standing in their thousands, these appearances, in damp England
what a pity they can’t all be kicked over
like sickening toadstools, and left to melt back, swiftly
into the soil of England.
How beastly the bourgeois is
especially the male of the species —
Presentable, eminently presentable — shall I make you a present of him?
Isn’t he handsome? Isn’t he healthy? Isn’t he a fine specimen?
Doesn’t he look the fresh clean Englishman, outside?
Isn’t it God’s own image? tramping his thirty miles a day
after partridges, or a little rubber ball?
wouldn’t you like to be like that, well off, and quite the thing
Oh, but wait!
Let him meet a new emotion, let him be faced with another
man’s need,
let him come home to a bit of moral difficulty, let life
face him with a new demand on his understanding
and then watch him go soggy, like a wet meringue.
Watch him turn into a mess, either a fool or a bully.
Just watch the display of him, confronted with a new
demand on his intelligence,
a new life-demand.
How beastly the bourgeois is
especially the male of the species —
Nicely groomed, like a mushroom
standing there so sleek and erect and eyeable —
and like a fungus, living on the remains of a bygone life
sucking his life out of the dead leaves of greater life
than his own.
And even so, he’s stale, he’s been there too long.
Touch him, and you’ll find he’s all gone inside
Just like an old mushroom, all wormy inside, and hollow
under a smooth skin and an upright appearance.
Full of seething, wormy, hollow feelings
rather nasty —
How beastly the bourgeois is!
Standing in their thousands, these appearances, in damp England
what a pity they can’t all be kicked over
like sickening toadstools, and left to melt back, swiftly
into the soil of England.
Lawrence
wrote this poem almost century ago in another country but it still resonates.
He specifically points at the male of the species, but surely a finger must also
be pointed towards the females who stand behind most of these men, enabling
them to stay “sleek and erect and eyeable” so that they too can suck their
lives out of the remains of others.
Such a sad spectacle, Kavanagh and all the grey men still standing
ReplyDeleteYes, the patriarchy is strong and entrenched. We keep hoping that times are changing but then we see the reality.
DeleteThose grey men like Al Purdy perhaps? But beneath the cloth is often a terrified child, enabled by his peers and perhaps even a good woman sometimes caled ‘Mom’. What traumas produce such men who become so blind?
DeleteMentioned this post in my blog this morning, Carol -- it's everything. . . xo
ReplyDeleteBrings to mind Karr's epigram, "The more things change, the more they stay the same." As you say, century has past, but not much has (sadly) changed in this arena. Power corrupts.
ReplyDeleteA-bloody-men!
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